Back to top

The NSW Relationships Register provides legal recognition for de facto partners, regardless of their sex. If your relationship is on the register and you want it removed, you can lodge an application by mail, or in person at a service centre.

Find a service centre
  • your personal and contact details
  • the PDF form – 'Service of Revocation Statement'
  • 3 certified personal identity documents as specified on the form
  • your payment.
Find a service centre
  1. Check the eligibility requirements.
  2. Download and complete Service of Revocation Statement – PDF.
  3. Make sure you have all the required documentation.
  4. Visit a service centre and lodge your application in person, or post it to:
    Registry of Births, Deaths & Marriages
    GPO Box 30
    Sydney NSW 2001
Find a service centre
  • Only the parties to a registered relationship can apply to revoke that relationship.
  • One or both of the parties may apply. If only one of the parties is making the application they must serve notice of the application on the other party, and lodge proof of that service.
  • Both or either parties to the revocation application may apply to withdraw the application within 90 days of the application being made.
Find a service centre
  • The Registrar cannot revoke the registration until 90 days after a revocation application has been lodged.
  • The registration of a relationship is automatically revoked by the death or marriage of a party to the relationship.
  • A court may make an order declaring the registration of a relationship void.
  • Certificates are sent by the Registry of Births, Deaths & Marriages via registered post. They cannot be collected at a service centre.
  • Check the turnaround times via the Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages website.
  • Turnaround times commence when applications are received in full compliance with Registry requirements, and exclude delivery time.
  • If you change your mind, or decide the certificate is no longer required, your application fee will not be refunded.
  • Documents provided as proof of identity may have their authenticity verified through the online Certificate Validation Service (CertValid) and the National Document Verification Service (DVS).

To make sure that you have all the information and documentation you need to complete this transaction, please visit Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages.

Find a service centre

Payment methods

For online or phone transactions, you can pay with:

  • credit or debit card (MasterCard, Visa, or American Express).

For transactions in person at a service centre, you can pay with:

  • cash (in Australian currency)
  • cheque (personal, bank or agency drawn)
  • money order
  • credit or debit card (MasterCard, Visa, American Express* or EFTPOS), or
  • Android Pay app.

Please note that you may need to pay a merchant fee when paying by credit or debit card.

* Unfortunately, some locations may not accept American Express.

Need help?

We’re happy to help you with this transaction.

Feel free to call us on 13 77 88 or visit a service centre

Source url: https://www.service.nsw.gov.au/transaction/apply-revoke-registered-relationship